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conulyDear Prudence,
I have a 10-year-old son whom I gave up for adoption when I was 17. I wasn’t the best person nor could I take care of him financially. My older brother stepped in and adopted him at 3 months old and has been raising him as his own ever since.
Well, I’m a changed person now and I have a completely different life. I absolutely love the Lord and want to do right by him. I’ve now had a relationship with my son for almost three years and I’m getting to spend more time with him and have him more. The problem I have is when I visit my son at his house, I’ve noticed he’s very spoiled and disobedient. I feel like a lot of it has to do with the fact that he’s the baby of the family and his mom lets him get away with a lot. Lately, when I take my other kids over, my son is mean to his younger siblings. How do I approach his mom about his behavior without her getting mad or me ruining the good relationship we all now have. I really want my son to treat his siblings better and to grow up and be a good god-fearing man.
—A Little Advice
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I have a 10-year-old son whom I gave up for adoption when I was 17. I wasn’t the best person nor could I take care of him financially. My older brother stepped in and adopted him at 3 months old and has been raising him as his own ever since.
Well, I’m a changed person now and I have a completely different life. I absolutely love the Lord and want to do right by him. I’ve now had a relationship with my son for almost three years and I’m getting to spend more time with him and have him more. The problem I have is when I visit my son at his house, I’ve noticed he’s very spoiled and disobedient. I feel like a lot of it has to do with the fact that he’s the baby of the family and his mom lets him get away with a lot. Lately, when I take my other kids over, my son is mean to his younger siblings. How do I approach his mom about his behavior without her getting mad or me ruining the good relationship we all now have. I really want my son to treat his siblings better and to grow up and be a good god-fearing man.
—A Little Advice
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