He makes it sound like she was visited by the holy spirit. When I wanted to maintain my childfree status I worked to prevent such things. Birth control can fail of course but I wonder if he was making any efforts in that direction.
“I went along with the pregnancy”
Therefore I have no responsibility for it or for managing my feelings around it. Someone did it to me.
“even though I had a lot of worries. It turns out my worries were founded.”
Most people worry whether the birth parent and baby will be healthy. Why do I get the impression this guy means oh no I will have to change a diaper and/or my wife won’t want sex for a few weeks…!
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He makes it sound like she was visited by the holy spirit. When I wanted to maintain my childfree status I worked to prevent such things. Birth control can fail of course but I wonder if he was making any efforts in that direction.
“I went along with the pregnancy”
Therefore I have no responsibility for it or for managing my feelings around it. Someone did it to me.
“even though I had a lot of worries. It turns out my worries were founded.”
Most people worry whether the birth parent and baby will be healthy. Why do I get the impression this guy means oh no I will have to change a diaper and/or my wife won’t want sex for a few weeks…!