No matter how much money you donated, LW, you should BUG OUT of the wedding organisation. Paying for a portion of the wedding is a gift to the couple being married, not an "in" on the organisation of the event.
Disclaimer: I may still be bitter that one of the stepbrothers wanted his wedding reception at an expensive restaurant, so his mother paid for it under the condition that his father and my mum (his stepmother) would be excluded from every speech and would not be allowed to do the "who comes to represent this man" part of the ceremony. She tried that shit with his brother, a decade later, but stepbrother 2 bucked that.
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No matter how much money you donated, LW, you should BUG OUT of the wedding organisation. Paying for a portion of the wedding is a gift to the couple being married, not an "in" on the organisation of the event.
Disclaimer: I may still be bitter that one of the stepbrothers wanted his wedding reception at an expensive restaurant, so his mother paid for it under the condition that his father and my mum (his stepmother) would be excluded from every speech and would not be allowed to do the "who comes to represent this man" part of the ceremony. She tried that shit with his brother, a decade later, but stepbrother 2 bucked that.